I mean even I'm dealing with having to cut myself off from shut in life and go back to the real world being in school again.
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Look forward to vacations, after work time, and weekends, and live up the shut in life temporarily in your free time. I think there probably are a good number of people who would prefer to just live alone and not have to deal with other people, stressful situations, and the massive time suck/life-suck that is work, but they still have to get jobs and make money to survive anyway, that's just the way it is for most people sadly.Īt least if you have a normal job, your employer probably won't be dictating the way you spend your off time. It's just much more dependable I think as a source of income. I would still advise you like a lot of other people would, to get a normal job. Make sure you do a lot of research and you know that whatever gov aid or online work is a stable source of income that you can live off of healthily, and not some irregular little payments that you can barely pay rent and eat ramen noodles off of. Well good luck with that online stuff and government aid if you really are dead set to live this kind of life. Thanks for the post, I won't be able to rely on family, my mom can hardly support my family right now, I think that government aid, and online work is the only thing I could get going for me.ĭamn theres a lot of non serious trolls in this thread, unfortunately. I don't want help, I want to be left alone, I want to stay home and watch anime, that is all I want to do, While I realize this is 'wrong' and 'not normal' it is what I want to do with my life, Also I am sorry to hear about what happened to you, and I am curious what stopped you from being a shut-in? I will not lie to you being a shut in does sound better to me than living a normal life, and you are right I probably should see a psychiatrist, my mom used to tell this to me all the time, but unless someone forces me to i don't think I will. Abandon the idea if you have any sense left in your head. Being a shut-in is not "cool" nor is it better than living a normal life. Just go talk to a psychiatrist or something and get your minor issues fixed. Whatever issues you have now will be amplified 10x if you decide to shut yourself away from society. Ruining your life because you have a little bit of social anxiety is a pretty terrible thing to do to yourself. you'll still be working I suppose, even if from the comfort of your own abode. you need to make sure you can actually get one that pays well enough to not struggle to buy food/rent/nessities to live. If you are really dead set on it, the only thing I can think of is online jobs. You might run into a problem and not be able to recieve government aid anymore, and you probably will never be rich enough to not have to work if you are a normal person. Parents can always get sick of you eventually, stop paying and kick you out. It might sound like a cool life to live but you will more htan likely be living on some shaky and unstable foundations that could lead to homelessness if your not careful. A lot of shut in people probably have parents pay for their shit, have some kind of government aid, they have an online job, rich enough to not have to work (this should be pretty rare), or any combination of those factors.įor a normal person, aiming to be a shut in probably isn't a very wise idea.
Yeah, a lot of posters already stated things pretty well. I was supposed to get a job during that time, but my parents never pressed the issue and continue to let me stay there until school started last Wednesday. I'd say that the only reason I was allowed to do this is because I applied and got accepted to grad school. I applied to grad school for about 2 weeks in late February, but besides that, I didn't do anything constructive, sat in my room, play games/watch anime all day. But I spent vast majority of my time otherwise in my room at home. I won't say I was really a shut in/hikikomori because I still did things outside of the house somewhat often out of nessisity, like my dad making me runs errands for him, doing mandatory house chores, and doing yardwork. I sort of lived that kind of life from to time I graduated college until 1 week ago (about 8 months).
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